The Weakness in Me

GabbyIf you know what true love is, you wouldn’t be in this position right now. You wouldn’t let yourself down and allow such disrespect to intoxicate your self-esteem. I’m talking about you, the one who smiles through her pain when in reality, there’s a bigger frown hidden upside-down. Why are you doing this to yourself? Who are you trying to please? I’m not going to ask you are you happy because it’s a broad question. I’m going to ask you, do you love yourself enough to walk away from what’s wrong and stand up for what’s right? You’ll be standing alone, but when you’re destined to be the best, nothing comes easy. Valentine’s Day is over, who are you fooling? The flower looks nice, and the chocolates was good but the love was never there.


I understand the feeling of being alone or desperate to feel wanted by someone who’s heart is already taken. It hurts. It hurts bad enough to think why have a heart when it was made to be broken? The guilt of lying to yourself, troubling your mind to consume into thinking that he’s your only hope of romance or else you’ll lose out on love. Is he that strong or is that the weakness in you? I remembered falling for this guy who took full advantage of my kindness. He had the power to control my emotions, losing sleep over something I never had from the beginning….his heart. I would turn into this whole completely different person, to please him just so that he can fall in love with me. That was the weakness in me. But go ahead and set aside your feelings, whatever makes “him” happy right?

You are worth more than being just the side piece. Being Mary Jane became the center of attention 021814-shows-bmj-ep-6-being-mary-jane-episode-recap-9to some women mindset, giving hopeless thoughts on what if’s and maybe he will finally be mine type of beliefs. There is no such thing as a man falling in love with two women at the same time. If one should ever tell you this, he is lying to you. The man you called your man is calling someone else his woman and have the audacity to say he loves you? How does that sound? If he truly loves you, the ONLY woman in his life would have been you. If it was complicated in the first place, why waste your time on convincing yourself that it will change, when you should have listen to your female intuition along the way? The time when he stood you up and promised to make it up to you; only to leave you with a weak “Come see me” text message around 3am. I hope you’re smart enough to ignore it and even wise enough to end it for good.
being-mary-jane-finale-picLet’s get more in-depth and change the scenario in this case: The kind of guy who say’s he’ll settle down with you as soon as he get himself together. Give him some time to sort things out and just “go with the flow”. The kind of guy that whispers sweet sounds of nothing in your ears, all talk but no actions have implied towards his lack of understanding the fundamental of being with a REAL woman. Oh, he’s not worried about you leaving because he know’s you’re not going anywhere. You’ve fallen head over heels for him. The role of playing Prince Charming is done and over with for him. Now that he have you where he wants you, the once magical chariot have now turned back to the run down pumpkin wagon he’s been riding on before he met you. He was always the jerk who claim to have no time to go on dates but made the time to hang out with his home boys. Staying up late night partying and when one of those nights come up, he’ll make it very clear to walk through somebody’s club as a “single man”. SelfWorth

Have you look at yourself in the mirror lately? You are a GODDESS! You cannot be treated no other way than the royalty of highness that is built within you. Where is your crown? You must never leave without it, which represents love, respect, beauty and wisdom. What you fail to realize is that there is a QUEEN inside of you waiting to surface. A Queen will never reveal herself around a man who claims to be a King. You have to open up your eyes and see that you can amount to anything in life. Speaking of life, life is a BEAUTIFUL thing, don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise. Life is a gift and you should cherish EVERY moment. Spend time with the ones you love and try to make the best out of EVERYTHING. Don’t waste your time with someone who will block your opportunity of being happy and living stress-free.hqdefault

Once you examine the Goddess in you, it will get a little colder for those who haven’t notice you the first time. That guy who never gave you a chance will come around wishing he could have crowned you. He will try to relive the past and will persuade you that he was always the one for you. Once a player, will always be a player…they play too much games.”But your heart is not a game of chest”, will be the reply from your true King who will never leave your side. Don’t give up on love….there is someone out there who can’t wait to show you off to word and will give you the world. The hurt and pain will soon vanish. Turn your weakness into strength and walk away from what no longer benefits you. All you have to do is keep reminding yourself daily, this may be the weakness in me but I am a Goddess. Breathe it and live it…never forget that you are a Goddess.

Dhane Philord

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